Moment of Truth & Male Week

“Sometimes you have to be your own cheerleader. Regardless if you have other people encouraging and supporting you or not, you still have to be there and encourage and support yourself. Don’t give up…you can make it! J”

Moment of Truth

Ya’ll this past week was hard for me. Really hard actually. I was feeling under the weather and just very blah….

Despite how I felt though, I couldn’t stay in that state of mind so I had to encourage myself and push myself to keep going (even though what I really wanted to do was lie in my bed under a bunch of covers and watch a ton of movies), but I couldn’t do that. I have work to do and deadlines to meet, so I couldn’t allow my physical or emotional state to get the best of me.

Staying positive and reminding myself that it was ok to feel however it was that I was feeling just as long as I didn’t stay in that place, (as well as getting some rest so that my body could rejuvenate), made the world of difference.

I’m still not feeling a hundred percent like myself, but I’m ready and willing to take on anything that life is going to throw at me this week.

So remember to cheer yourself on and to encourage yourself no matter what is happening around about you. If you think better, you feel better…

And don’t think that I’m some optimistic romanticist (…and maybe I am…but that’s not really the point!). The point is that I have real problems just like anybody else, and there are some days that really try to get to me, but I realize that life is short and my time is precious, so I refuse to spend it being angry, pessimistic or negative.

So stay encouraged and be positive! Life is too beautiful and full of wonderful experiences not to.

Male Week

Oh, and in other news, a couple of days ago one of my guy friends called me up and reminded me that I have male readers reading this site too! So in an effort not to alienate anyone (and because I think that it would be fun), I decided that this entire week I would dedicate to the chaps following this site J.

So, we are going to start off with a Monologue Monday post on “How to Treat A Guy” (a requested post…by a male reader), then on Wednesday or Thursday we are going to do a post on “Can Guys and Girls Just Be Friends”, followed by Part 2 of my brother’s Male’s Perspective Interview (on either Friday or Saturday). In between these times, I might post little things here and there in appreciation towards all the guys out there doing their thing and making a difference in the world.

 So enough talking for now… off to edit Monday’s Monologue…..talk to you in a bit.

-Virgin Monologuez